Life has a weird way of working
itself out.
10 years ago (which feels like 2
years ago), I would have never believed that I would have two little beauties as
my side-kicks.
It took 5 years to get pregnant
with Cailin and another 4 with Colbie. First I never thought, I would be
blessed with one. Later, I never thought I would be blessed with a second. But
timing is strange, because even though I would not have planned it the way it
is, I have thoroughly enjoyed the age gap. Although 5 years apart we enjoyed
every moment of Cailin until Colbie was born and then got to experience it all
over again with Colbie.
Now I have a CiCi Bean AND a
Peekaboo Bean simultaneously. As if it were planned that way.
With Peekaboo Beans, we can
celebrate wee Beans, as they learn to find themselves through play. With CiCi
Bean we can celebrate the Awesomeness of girls, so they can always let their
heart be their guides. Why am I so passionate about both? Because our children
are the future and I want to set them up for success. These early years are the
roots to their success in life as adults. Learning to develop social skills
through play, gaining confidence and independence through successful attempts at
new opportunities. Then to navigate the challenges of being a young
impressionable girl, and not having to "follow" others to be accepted, but to be
supported through independent thought and opinions.
I notice with my CiCi how fragile
this time can be - that is why CiCi Bean has become something I am VERY
passionate about. Who doesn't want their little girls to feel accepted, loved,
cherished and supported. CiCi Bean not only stands for something powerful, the
clothing makes them feel great. When you are young it often becomes natural to
blame your body for the way clothes fit, this can spiral out of control with
media being the way it is. Striving for "perfection". Dieting and eating
disorders can quickly become a fixation. CiCi Bean designs clothing so that it
is comfortable and it fits with ease and casualness, but with its own personal
flair. There are a few other components to CiCi that I love, the sizing for
example - we aren't a 8,10,12,14 - who wants to be defined by a number. We are
"eight is great", "ten out of ten", "totally awesome twelve" and "fabulous
fourteen". The other is we look age appropriate!!!!! Fun, stylish, confident
and full of personality, but without the skin and sassiness. Lets keep our
girls young.
I recently read an article from a
father of a 3 year old daughter. He wrote a letter to Victoria Secret
flabbergasted at the launch of a new Teen underwear collection the line will be
called "Bright Young Things" and will feature " lace black cheeksters with the
word "Wild" emblazoned on them, green and white polka-dot hipsters screen
printed with "Feeling Lucky?" and a lace trim thong with the words, "Call me" on
the front." (You can read the letter HERE). I think we have all seen those crazy
commercials of "girls gone wild". Okay, that just scares me to death!!! I
can't lie.
The over sexualization of girls
is happening more than ever. With CiCi Bean we want to be a stand for good
healthy body image, starting from an early age. Young impressionable tween beans that needs to be celebrated. We are here to do
that.... Because they are awesome!
In love and play,
Click HERE to go to our CiCi Bean Blog, Let Your Heart Be Your Guide, for more information and to view the current collection.
2 comments:
As the mother of a 12 year old, it is refreshing to hear someone who not only "gets" it....but is doing something in the marketplace to make awesome clothes available for these girls! The article you referred to was very disturbing in the sense that this is how companies view our girls...as objects, not impressionable young women! Thank you for what you are doing!
Great readingg
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